Standing Up for Yourself and Your Boundaries

(Knowing the power hidden in the Tarot’s 7 of Wands… plus a little help from The Real Housewives of Potomac)

Last night, I was binging on one of my favorite shows, the Real Housewives of Potomac. Those Housewives franchises are truly my not-guilty pleasure. Not only do I love to watch boss bitches build businesses, I love to watch them read for filth when it’s time to.

Last night, it all came to a head though. A brewing fued had been building all season when Dr. Wendy Osefo, a power house with “4 degrees” decided that it was time to upgrade her look.

After breastfeeding 3 babies for over a year each, after deciding to find a new career path beyond of the corporate and university tenure, she got some body work done.

Wendy sauntered into season 6 with new breasts, a new butt and some wigs, that I ain’t even mad at. Women reserve the right to do whatever they want with their bodies and to feel good if that work helps.

But because of a rumor dropped by a popular online gossip site last year alleging that Wendy’s husband had cheated on her, her changes were spun all the way counter clockwise.

It’s so no surprise to people that follow the Potomac franchise that Gizelle Bryant and her minion Robyn Dixon, tend to project their relational…